Abraham-Hicks Emotional Guidance System Explained
Recently, I spent four days without the internet or a cell phone signal.
At Breitenbush Hot Springs Retreat Center, where Nick and I spent the weekend before Thanksgiving, they sort of force you to do this digital detox.
But the break from technology really supported the purpose of our mini-vacation: attending a couples’ workshop called “Kiss Me, Bite Me, Pet Me.”
The theory of the therapist, Deborah, who led the workshop with her husband, Adam, is that we have 3 primary desires in intimate relationships.
The first desire is to be kissed, to feel deeply cherished, to feel our uniqueness is celebrated. The second is to be bitten, to have an edge, adventure, mystery, and transcendence. And the third desire is to be pet, to be accepted, soothed, and healed.
This was Nick and my first time doing anything like this before. We didn’t really know what to expect.
But talking with other couples about “couple things” turned out to be really nurturing for our curious Gemini Sun and harmony-seeking Libra Rising personalities.
My favorite part of the workshop, however, happened on day two when Deborah revealed that a lot of the time, “Kiss Me, Bite Me, Pet Me” is actually “Pet Me, Pet Me, Pet Me.”
Basically, if a couple creates a safe space of acceptance and soothing (the “Pet Me” energy) then the romantic “Kiss Me” and the spicy “Bite Me” energies will naturally emerge.
“That’s so Abraham-esque” I smiled to myself.
It really is all about soothing our resistance.
Because, as Abraham teaches, and as I have come to believe, what we desire really wants to manifest.
It’s only our resistant thoughts that slow this natural process down.
Today’s YouTube video is all about Abraham’s concept of the emotional guidance system.
Understanding the guidance of our emotions is the key to understanding whether or not we’re currently allowing or resisting our desired manifestations.
